Should is one of those words I grew up hearing often. “You should take out the trash” “You should practice” “You should do all your homework” …and on and on… As I grew older I took on the role of a co-promoter of “Shoulds”. I “shoulded” my friends. I “shoulded” my students. I “shoulded” the world in general. And then I met my husband (well, obviously he wasn’t my husband yet) and BAM! I hit a “should” wall. I think it was my first “should” with him that met that wall. I said something on the order of “you should take your fins off inRead More →